http://www.amazingdatingtips.com/dating/n101.html Dating rule #1 is do not push it. en-us Mon, 08 May 2006 11:46:42 EDT Mon, 08 May 2006 11:46:42 EDT Weblog Editor 2.0 One dating rule that you absolutely have to remember If we can tell you anything during your visit to Amazing Dating Tips dot com, it is this one dating rule. Do not push it. When we say not to push it, we don't mean that you shouldn't get down and boogie to the Salt N' Pepa song by that name (push it real good!). It is okay with us if you want to do that and you may even earn some points with the ladies with your willingness to break down and go crazy on the dance floor to a song like that. Sure you will be dating yourself (and we mean "dating" in the sense that you will be known as a man who dances to early 1990s rap), but women like a man who is not shy or worried about others' perceptions. But when we tell you not to push it, we mean this as the cardinal dating rule... let things happen as they come. Chart your own course and roll with the punches. If you push her too hard she will only push back. You do not want to get clingy. Seriously. There is nothing worse than a clingy man. Or woman, depending if you are female. Don't cling. Always remember this dating rule if you want to get off on the right foot. Get your mind out of the gutter right this minute and listen to what we have to say. There is no magical formula for dating, just a general set of guidelines. Namely, be yourself, work out as much as you can to keep the pounds off, show her respect, be a good listener, and shut the hell up when she is having a bad day. Do not come across as desperate but make yourself available at the same time. Follow that dating rule and you will be good to go. Mon, 08 May 2006 11:46:42 EDT